Joined: 17 Jan 2011
|Posted: January 19 2011 Post subject: Sexsomnia and more
it's very hard for me to talk to somebody but I try to find answers so I write to you people.
I have a girlfriend since 1,5 month and I noticed in her sleep that she masturbates herself. When she is doing that I can't wake her up, no matter what I try. I didn't know what to do and then she started to masturbate me and wanted to have sex with me. She doesn't talk during that stage but she is very strong ad tries everything to have sex with me. Her whole body is like she is awake except of her head. She doesn't kiss , but she slaps and moans and everything. I talked about it with her and she didn't know that. She said I can have sex wih her during that stage but she doesn't remember anything. When I try to use a condom dring that stage she always get angry in her sleep and pulls it off.
Las weekend the same happened again (like every night). But after the sex she changed like I have never seen her before. She laid against the wall and when I touched her she was very scared. She hit the wall and was shocked all the time I touched her. This took about half an hour. Then she changed and cuddled with me like she never did before.
I could talk to her and she answered with a nick, yes or no. She hit herself during the sleep on her belly and hided a pregnancy test for me. I asked if she is doing this because she wants to be pregnant and she nicked yes. But when she doesn't when she is awake and I believe her of course. We are to young for a baby now.
Her biggest fear ist to get no children. I've got the feeling that the person during her sleep tries to get what her biggest fear is: to get a baby.
This is so weird, I know. But I don't know what to do. She doesn't want to go to a doctor and I can't sleep next to her because I feel so sorry that she hasn't got a good night.
Does anybody know what that other parts next to the sexsomnia is?